SSP one of the shining stars of being a PUA or "Gamer". If done well becomming a closer shouldn't be a problem, if done wrong you could come off as creepy as usual ....
Warning just like everything else this is a method that takes time to master , as a result just by practicing it @ first you may lose targets . Untill it becommes congruent with who you are, you may appear as the creepy guy that likes to talk about sex . But once it is congruent with your natural self it will be as easy as using your faviorate opener .
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Yet again I was reading RSD Wiki and I was reading an article about SSP (can't give credit to the staff member because I can't really remember ! Sorry guys don't delete me ha) but yet again I believe it was either Alex or Nathan because for some reason I think they have a similar style .
The Post was about the persons method to projecting a sexual state in which he throws out a comment to see if the female will "hook" . If she does he then stacks the conversation into a sexually driven interaction including stories of himself or friends of his and draw the female into this . He will then ask her opinon on the topic and ask " is thatt something that you'd like?" or " that sounds like some shit you would do ?"
which will in turn make her more comfortable about the subject around you . Also while doing this method you maken it known that sex isn't a big deal to you . Shit animals fuck all day and we don't judge them for it , why should you judge a female if she knows what she wants and she goes to get it . Also it is IMPORTANT that while projecting a Sexual State you make sure that she realizes that you do not judge females for having sex early , and that you applaude a female for knowing what she wants . So when it comes time to have sex she doesn't have thoughts of you thinking negative about her afterwards . Most females don't want to see there image shattered or will hate to be judged and by you making her aware of this ..... this problem won't happen !!!!
* in turn the female will accept that being sexual is just congruent with your character
* she won't be hesitant to bring up the matter around you or talk about it
* can lead to an earlier sexual relationship because if she's knows its congruent with your character , you won't judge her for having a sexual relation so early in getting to know you .
This is why a lot of Pua's sets go stale so early on , there cool and gaming wise its on point .... but if you just continue to be that cool guy you will just become a cool friend . Then they try and bring up sex later on down the line and by this time it won't appear to her as part of who you are . A lot of guys grow strong relationships and do everything right but they just can't finish and like I said SSP will help you become a closer .
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Now this is how I started to project A sexual state. But recently I've been using a new way that has been getting my targets to know early on that I'm just SEXUAL period .it is based off of the method described above .
* being sexual is a strong tool that a male has over females . We know it , we feel it but yet when it comes to females we don't express it .... why ? Because society tells us its wrong to do so . So we try not to talk about sex until we feel that we have that deep level of comfort and that we have a bond with the female . And there's nothing wrong with this , BUT the whole point of PU is to get us out of our comfort zone . Most people feel comfortable about waiting til they have that deep level of comfort . Now if you force youself out of your comfort zone and start the sexual drive earlier on your producing that sexual state .
When I open a target and start gaming her I watch EVERYTHING . I watch her body language and eyes mainly because the unspoken words are the ones with the most meaning . Also pay attention to not the words itself but the underlying meaning to the words or the Sub Communication . I use everything she does AGAINST her .
*if she has strong EC I'll ask is she trying to seduce me ? And imply that strong EC is the best way to lure someone into your trap . Basically I'm maken it seem as if she's hitting on me . ( when a females hitting on you it could be sub conscious like an IOI) same thing for body language .
More than likely she'll laugh and pay more attention to her body language.
I'll usually suggest or hint that everything she does is hitting on me and that I PERMIT this type of behavior
Sin: you have this little twinkle in your eye when you look @ me .... something like what my ex used to do when she wanted me to kiss her ....
Don't stop though I luv it
Your used to this and your maken it known 2 her.
Also while building rapport I'll throw out a sexual comment BUT I'll ask her opinion on the matter so she has to respond. Ask her questions but always put out your view on the matter before you allow her to answer so she won't feel that your trying to judge her in any way at all .
I usually tell chicks about how this girl told me oral and swallowing is nasty but I love a female more for doing it because she's doing what she wants to do as an adult and not caring what I or others may say about it . Now that she knows you have a positive view on the matter she will giver her honest opinion without feeling she's being judged . I will then stack forward and keep the sex convo going NOT revealing to much , but just enough to kinda pump her BT . At this point this is when you monitor her her responses and tell if she's comfortable with this or not . But by leading her down this path you have already established the rapport that most chodes are scared to touch on .
I'm.about to go into class so any clarification on this please don't hesitate to ask and I'll try my best to explain to the best of my ability
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