food Buddha SSP Post

---

Quote:

Originally Posted by haiqu Peacocking and being the life of the party is for KIDS. It's for people who have yet to really achieve any value in their lives. And I thought Dave D was pretty cool too, until I realized just how GAY his material was. Yeah, I know this is going to be controversial, but I've said it. James Bond doesn't need to throw value around into the wind hoping to attract someone. He's laser-precise and knows what he wants. And he goes after that, and gets it. Quality, not quantity. His Nimbus is on stealth mode most of the time.

DaveD was my intro to PU. The reason he worked for me back in 04 was that his perspective on being alpha and in-charge and taking power back for myself was something that I had never considered before. I was doing it, sometimes, but not consistently, and his material specifically got me thinking about my place in society and my position with women, their position with me. That was a great start.

The missing piece is this thing we've all been talking about lately, but not really fleshing out. It eludes many of us, self included when I'm stressed out thinking too much. This thing is the key to why the RSD guys are doing it right: strong internally-driven male sexuality worn on your outsides. I've been calling it Sexual State Projection, or SSP, I am not sure who coined the phrase but wasn't me.

D and other PU gurus miss this point about SSP entirely. Sure D's got programs about male sexuality etc whatever the fuck, whatever. They are gay because they dance around the topic and never really cut to the heart of matters. And many many many programs are about the tactical technology, not about the SOUL of what it means to "pick up" women. Tons of friends have gone on-program with other companies and none have reported significant inroads to the core concept of SSP.

Here is cutting to the heart of matters:

About a month ago I was having a beer with some woman, 35 y.o. attractive. We'd been there for about 5 minutes thus far, just long enough to order a beer and we were finding a place to sit. We walk outside, she says something like "I'm not dating anybody, but I'd date YOU." I'm walking in front of her. Upon hearing these words, I stop, turn around, say nothing, put my arms around her, pull her close and kiss her for about 5 minutes in the doorway while people are trying to get in and out around us and I ignore them completely. Took her breath away. A deliberately small example, but illustrative of my point that any man can do it, it's JUST a kiss: Putting it out there. Relentlessly. Without hesitation. Desire without attachment.

Other examples that go much deeper (lol):
-Ciaran's Shock and Awe
-MW's follow-up
-JD's qualifying women post
-Perseverance's Church Lay report
-Jeffy and Alex's demos on BC, and their LRs that come up time-to-time
-Other same-day reports, from kiss-to-fuck, incl mine on the virg
-All Fool's Mate Game reports

What they share in common: rapid escalation, state projection, STRONG MALE SEXUALITY EXPRESSED IN REAL TIME. Nothing tentative, brainy, thought out in advance, calculating, routine-based, a-to-b-to-c-no-wait-d, nothing canned, practiced or fake. Nimbus in full effect, calibrated, and with style and panache on the range from James Bond smooooth to King-of-Aces style DOUBLE-BARRELED ALL-OUT TANK-ATTACK.

I'll take this "controversial" topic one step further. Pick-Up & Game are for KIDS. SSP is for MEN.

Anything less than Thermonuclea