Friday, March 28, 2008

Alpha of all Alpha's

Alpha of all Alpha's
In this post im gunna explain the 2 different types of Alpha Males
In the PU world we have come to the conclusion that there is an Alpha and a Beta
Alpha being the more socially conditioned person , alot of confidence .... basically the traits of a natural
Beta is a person that is below an alpha who is not as socally conditioned , doesnt always display confidence ... basically a person levels below an alpha .

Now alot of People go thru the phase of trying to align there self with other alpha's . This is good BUT what alot of males dont realize is that there are 2 TYPES OF ALPHA's

In a social group you have a Pure Alpha , and a Beta Alpha . Basically the Alpha is the dude that basically is the leader of your group, you tend to try and show approval to this guy even though you may not realize it . Pay attention to how you may react to this guy, how you may be seeking his approval and how other react to his alpha status over yours .

The Beta Alpha is an alpha but when faced or around a pure alpha his status suddenly plunges and decreases and he doesnt feel as Alpha . As tyler says he has Value in certain enviorments .

A Pure tends not to react to anyone or anythng he does things at his own pace and doesnt feel threatned in the presence of others , basically this is the alpha we all know already and we are all trying to become . He has an overpowering frame that tends to attract everyones attention and there is nothing going on in the area that probably doesnt include him in some way shape or form . Ladies love him because he displays all the characteristics of the man we are all trying to become .

A Beta Alpha tends to also be an Alpha but his status is not as strong as the Pure's . His frame may be imposing but not as strong or dominant . He may only feel alpha in certain situations and enviorments other times he may have BETA traits . When in state this Alpha can overtake a room like a Pure long as he feels he is the strongest Alpha around and that there is no one there to compete with him for that status .


ex: You walk into a club where your social status is proven and you are known . But on this particular night Jay-Z is in town and in your normal venue . Jay being a Pure Alpha sucks up all the attention and makes your alpha status shrivel and die . Because he is socially proven and well known , and you may also be alpha but his status is more proven . Thus maken him the Pura and you the Beta.

Another Ex... have you ever beein in state and overran a venue ? to the point that you dont get Amog's but you have other Alpha's comming to you seeking your approval ? they see you as the Pure alpha and they are sumcommunicating that they acknowledge this by noticing and seeking your approval .


Now the point that many of us is at .... Is the fact that there may be a group of us in a social circle that hangs with other Beta Alpha's ... If the other BA feels he has more status thatn you or that he is more alpha this Alpha may constantly try
1)steal your value
2) make you qualify yourself to him
3) or throw shit test at you

They may try and steal your value by maken you feel below them by maken certain gestures or remarks ...

make you qualify to them by maken you show them that you are worthy of there approval and attention ( think .... why do we qualify females ? so that way we can see if she lives up to our standards .)

Throw shit test at you to see how you may react to them and respond . In an interaction there is ALWAYS someone who responds more in the conversation than the other , so if your responding to him you are showing that he is above you .


And you deal with these as if they were comming from a girl you were gaming ... keep your cool and reframe from it









I know this bcuz the last 2 weeks i have had another Alpha roomate who is kinda surprised with my Alpha status , he respects my status but at the same time he is always trying to prove that he is more alpha than me . So on a daily basis he trys these on me and it doesnt work , so 2day he gets frustrated enough to get mad and pick a fight .

I Laughed and told him hes frustrated bcuz were in the middle of no where and i've been able to get laid while he spends everynight arguing with his girl back home .... this cleared the tension of fighting and brung the convo into another area ....

Be more cautious and study your surroundings and ppl more and this will show more




Adioz


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